Does this girl like me or not?

At the very least she is mixed up, does she want a relationship or not? Why doesn't she have a more concret thing going now. You might ask where her self respect is that she could do that. But the important thing for you is that she is not ready for another relationship in her life right now. She hasn't put this one behind her and cut all ties with him and she would be short changing you, not giving 100%. Could that change? Yes, she could be off again tomorrow and where would you be then?